The Things We Never Say - Elizabeth Strout

The Things We Never Say

By Elizabeth Strout

  • Release Date: 2026-05-05
  • Genre: Literary Fiction
Score: 4
4
From 412 Ratings

Description

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • In this “profound, resplendent novel”* from Pulitzer Prize–winning, #1 New York Times bestselling author Elizabeth Strout, a chance incident sparks a powerful realization in a beloved teacher’s life

“Strout’s capacious empathy and rigorous attention to the nuances of human behavior and psychology are as evident as ever.”—The Boston Globe

“Artie Dam is someone you may never be able to forget.”—Financial Times*

Artie Dam is living a double life. He spends his days teaching history to eleventh graders, expanding their young minds, correcting their casual cruelties, and lending a kind word to those who need it most. He goes to holiday parties with his wife of three decades, makes small talk with neighbors, and, on weekends, takes his sailboat out on the beautiful Massachusetts Bay. He is, by all appearances, present and alive. But inside, Artie is plagued by feelings of isolation. He looks out at a world gone mad—at himself and the people around him—and turns a question over and over in his mind: How is it that we know so little about one another, even those closest to us?

And then, one day, Artie learns that life has been keeping a secret from him, one that threatens to upend his entire world. Once he learns it, he is forced to chart a new course, to reconsider the relationships he holds most dear—and to make peace with the mysteries at the heart of our existence.

Elizabeth Strout, as we have come to expect, delivers a moving exploration of the human condition—one that brims with compassion for each and every one of her indelible characters. With exquisite prose and profound insight, The Things We Never Say takes one man’s fears and loneliness and makes them universal. And in the same breath, captures the abiding love that sustains and holds us all.

Reviews

  • Meh

    2
    By Slots super fan
    Dull
  • The Things we never say.

    2
    By Dedra Grizzard
    A few good moments in the book but overall not a fan. Glad I finished it
  • Horrible

    1
    By D.massachusetts
    Too bad politics ruined this book.
  • Wonderful book

    5
    By nobookclub1
    A very moving story. And so true that we never really know another human. We need more teachers like Artie.
  • The Things We Should Never Read

    1
    By cbybird
    A manipulative effort by the author to weave in her biased and distorted political perspective into what may have otherwise been a touching, albeit depressing, story.
  • Contemplating my own life

    5
    By BeebCeed78
    I cried on and off reading this book. The COVID pandemic left a pandemic of loneliness in its wake, and I now realize I am lonely and scared to say how I really feel. As I read Artie’s story, memories from my own life played in my head. It made me long for the innocence I had before I had to become a grown‑up. I should join a book club.
  • The Things We Never Say

    5
    By Artymusician
    I loved reading this book, and especially loved the character, Artie Dam. He reminded me of a teacher ! had who inspired me and had a profound impact on my life. I hope Shakespeare can help us to say the things we cannot say, and more importantly to listen, care, and understand others. To show kindness and love to our neighbors - regardless of their circumstances and points of view. It was kindness that Artie saw in Evie's eyes when they first met serving others. Francesca said she looked for God in the musical recitals she gave to awed audiences around the world, and sometimes felt close. Seeing the good in others is uplifting and rewarding to us all. I learned more about French politics in Les Miserables and American politics in Gone With the Wind than history classes. I cannot imagine criticizing Victor Hugo or Margaret Mitchell for including politics!
  • The Things We Never Say

    1
    By ljoyce24
    I read for pleasure. This was anything but. Leave politics out of it.
  • Horrible

    1
    By juliusa
    Who really wrote this? Definitely what I would’ve expected from this author. Terrible dialogue, no emotion, horrible people. Evie in particular is just a mean and horrible person and one wishes the mai character would see that. This was a waste of money and I’m shocked it got any good reviews at all. Sadly it’s the last I’ll ever read by this author. I think she’s lost her mojo.
  • Moving story but why politics

    3
    By sherrtlarsonmn
    I enjoyed this story immensely. It was moving and relatable but it could have been equally good without bringing politics into it.